Sexcapade: Sexual Role Play

Welcome back to the Two2Tango Sexcapades! The sex bucket list task I’ll be sharing today is sexual role play. I got a lot of groans when everyone found out this was the next tasks, so I was surprised that people enjoyed this task so much!  It seems that this was a really good opportunity for people to get a laugh and I myself was a little bit surprised by the role playing choices (um, lemons? ok?),  but hey whatever floats your boat!

Sexcapade Challenge: Sexual Role Play

Average rating for Her: (5 / 5)
Average rating for Him: (5 / 5)
Total average Rating: (5 / 5)
All the Juicy details…

Couple 1: His Rating (5 / 5) Her Rating (5 / 5)

First, funny story somewhat unrelated to this week’s sexcapade but too great not to share.  My husband is the one who really liked the nude welcome home and who has been asking me to wear heels and do that challenge again pretty much every week since.

Anyway, at the advice of this blog, I decided to buy a new pair of heels and some new lingerie to surprise him for Christmas. I wrapped them both and put them under the tree. On Christmas morning, he opened up the lingerie and the new pair of red heels and looked at me wide eyed and with a look of horror and confusion. He said to me  in a worried/angry/I’ve gone too far voice ‘IS THIS FOR ANOTHER ONE OF YOUR SEXCAPADES?!?!! I WILL NOT WEAR ANY WOMEN’S LINGERIE!!!!!  His face was priceless. This made me laugh hysterically, and then about a minute later when he finally understood he wasn’t meant to wear it he quickly covered it up and ran to put it downstairs away from the kids eyes. It was so funny and we both got a really good laugh about that one.

Back to the Sexual Role Play! We enjoyed this one. We tagged it onto a date night and we pretended we were strangers. He’s never done a one night stand so it was fun for him to fantasize that he didn’t know me. It was fun for me to pretend it was the first time I was seeing him, I liked him more!

Couple 2: His Rating (5 / 5) Her Rating (5 / 5) .

She wasn’t feeling like making the effort so I took the lead this week.  For some reason she thinks that kumquat trees are a good decoration in our apartment. I’ve never understood this so I decided this week to put the useless plants to work in the best way we could. We pretended the kumquats were lemons.  I was admiring one of my beautiful lemon trees and saying beautiful things about  the lemony lemon fruit.  It had been about 10 seconds since I had looked at my lemon tree when I caught her creeping around trying to steal lemons from the lemon tree.  Obviously, this led to sex.

Couple 3: His Rating (5 / 5) Her Rating (5 / 5)

This isn’t something we’ve done before and I was not looking forward to this challenge. I always associated role playing with weird and kinky situations and couldn’t imagine one that we could enjoy. Unfortunately my husband came down with the Man-flu this week. Whenever he is sick he always acts like he’s dying which is very helpful for  getting out of household and childcare duties. When it was clear that he was fine and just enjoying his time in bed, I thought the sexcapade would be the perfect way to show him he wasn’t really sick. Basically, I approached him and told him I was his nurse and that I was going to take very, very good care of him. I took his temperature, had a peek inside his mouth, and gave him a sip of water with an Ibuprofin. Then, I instructed him to remove his clothing so I could give him an examination. He was back to himself in no time at all and It turned out he wasn’t so sick afterall!

Couple 5: His Rating (5 / 5) Her Rating (5 / 5).

We don’t regularly do role playing per se, but I often find myself fantasizing about different things when we’re together. What can I say, I like a bit of variety. A few things that usually pop up in my mind are being stripper, having a threesome, or if he is dominant but I wanted to do something different. As a Christmas gift he sent me for a day to a spa, and while I was there I was thinking of how great a sexy massage would be.  I told him to pretend that he didn’t know me which was fun because it was also a play on the stranger fantasy. The best part of this challenge was that it turned both of us on and when he kept trying to move on from massage to sex, I kept saying ‘Sorry sir, this isn’t that kind of massage parlour’. It was fun teasing him and a nice buildup that transitioned easily since we were already undressed, oil involved, etc.  We did both enjoy it although I admit we didn’t finish the actual massage.  I would like him to do this to me next time.

That is it for sexual role play! If you are thinking about role playing, give it a try! There are so many options and it gives you both an opportunity to get outside of your normal comfort area to spice things up again! If you need some ideas, I’ve listed some common ones you might want to try below. Our next task will ‘Sexting’ — ie sending our partners a sexy photo or message. Join in if you are up for it and send us your feedback!