Welcome back to our first Sexcapade bucket list report on the 69 Position! I’m really happy to have you joining us as we make our way through this slightly crazy/fun/exciting journey. I hope some of this will inspire you to try some daring new things with your own partner!

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For those of you who need a bit more explaining of what 69 Position actually is, I hope the image of the relief above is somewhat telling. In short, it involves partners giving and getting oral sex at the same time. I’m not going to lie, putting this post together definitely made me blush a bit, but it was really fun having a voyeuristic view into other peoples sex lives!  I’m really looking forward to the coming months!

And here is the report:

WEEK 1: 69 Position

Average rating for Her: (4.2 / 5)
Average rating for Him: (4.8 / 5)
Total average Rating: (4.5 / 5)
All the Juicy details…

Couple 1:  His rating:  (5 / 5) Her rating: (4.5 / 5)

‘Overall, we both enjoyed this task. The only negative was that my jaw started hurting after a few minutes because I was trying to be careful not to graze him with my teeth, which is easy to do accidentally since it’s not a perfect 90 degree angle. It was also annoying that It kept turning into a blowjob when he got distracted (um hello, that’s not what we signed up for this week!).  Ultimately, this ended up leading to sex, but definitely better sex than usual because we were both so turned on. We will absolutely  do this again as a way to get things started but I don’t see this as something we would do as the main event itself.’

Couple 2: His rating: (5 / 5) Her rating: (5 / 5)

‘We love 69. We don’t do it regularly but it’s something that we find intimate, fulfilling and incredibly hot. It gets 5 stars even though we didn’t participate fully because I was on my period (hey we compromised–he got a bj and I played with a vibrator= win win). We’ve both done 69 in other relationships and know the experience can be great or terrible depending on how comfortable a couple is with each other.  The key is to fully relax and not be self conscious at all. This is no problem for us because there is no part of each others body that is off limits for us. He adds:  ‘What is not to love? If we were doing this one at a time it would take twice as long. Ultimate efficiency.’

Couple 3: His rating: N/A Her rating: N/A

‘She didn’t want to try 69ing this week. She has tried it in the past in other relationships and didn’t enjoy it. He would have liked to have tried it but didn’t push the issue. We eagerly await next week’s task!’

Couple 4: His rating: (4.5 / 5) Her rating (3 / 5):

‘There is a big height difference between us so we had a hard time making this work. My torso is too short so he ended up with a sore neck and I had to pull him ‘down’ and go in at a weird angle. To our credit, we tried this a few ways. We started with me on top and him below and it was OK but I felt awkward and exposed. Next we tried him on top and me below and it was just a bad idea. I didn’t like his balls in my face or the feeling of his thing coming down at me. Before giving up we tried both on our sides and it was easiest bust still felt weird. I think that neither of us is very good at oral sex so we would need to practice more to make this better. Not my favorite, but also not the worst. He liked it more than me as you can see from the rating.’

We’d love to hear your opinions if you happened to try the 69 Position too! Our next sex bucket list challenge is ‘Greet your partner at the front door completely naked’. If you would like to join in on completing our bucket list send us your feedback to let us know what worked and what didn’t work. Have fun and see you next Hump Day! 🙂

One thought to “Sexcapades: 69 Position”

  • Marcia Gleason

    I’m so impressed with the honesty! We need more frank discussions about this stuff. Thanks Amy for creating such an edgy exercise.

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